Should we BEG for Friendship ? 🤔


Should we BEG for Friendship?


Let us consider two things first

👊 Are we really friends with them?

👊 Are we really begging?

1. Are we really friends with them

:- We may be confused with the relations and their bound so let’s think about it.

> Ques is ..do the time duration decides how good friend we are

If your answer is Yes …Then you are really confused. This is my personal experience even a 1-year-old friend can be more important than 7–8-year-old friends

> Ques is.. Do the gender Is important for Friendship

Absolutely no..same and opposite both genders may have the feeling of Friendship and friendly love

> Ques is... Ques is...Ques is..we have multiple parameters to consider

Every question has the same answer and that is Caste, Religion, Economical differences nothing matters only friendship matters in friendship.

2. Are we Really Begging?

Generally, we conclude the argument in the last but I would like to take advantage of giving the answer of my heading question right here that is NO..we must not beg for FRIENDSHIP

but this doesn’t mean am done here ..Definitely am gonna support my conclusion….

  • If we are using the word begging..it means nothing left in friendship, So lets further try to ignore this negative word
  • Sometimes mishappen in relation may lead to misunderstanding and our conversation stops which further leads to differences. Now the point is who is gonna initiate the conversation and in this process, our ego doesn’t let us do the same. So how you will determine whether u should initiate
  1. If you find it hard not talking with your friend > You may start Conversation
  2. If you think u made mistake > You must Apologize
  3. If you came across this situation before and it was your friend who started the conversation > then you may think about starting the conversation

Friendship is the best Relation in this universe. Few people say that we make friends but the truth is we just become friends... it's a self process... it's a feeling... it's natural... it's a gift.

We can’t just force ourselves for friendship. Once we are friends with someone then there must be no backtracking. If this friendship is a Dictionary then there is no such word as “EGO” that exists. Although sometimes we all go through this situation when carrying on a relation doesn't seem to be easy but if even a 1% chance of reunion is there just grab it. There is a fake world in front of us which we need to recognize, but if your friend is not faking then he/she is a Dimond which you will definitely like to wear in your ring. But when it's not possible to carry friendship..then it's good to let it go.

Should we BEG for New Friendship?


What does that mean?

Whatever I have mentioned till now is for them who are Already friends but there can be a situation when some new person comes in your life whom you want to be your friend then what will you do. In this case, u may just make him/her realize that you want his/her friendship but if he /she still don’t accept then Forget about him because am stuck with my point that if the word “BEG” comes between any relation then that Relation doesn't exist anymore.

IN THE END, I WOULD SAY THAT FRIENDS ARE THE BEST GIFT 💓


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